Posts Tagged ‘Gossip’
Reality Unscripted
Jana, RN
Related: Attitude, Career, Emotions, Gossip, Learning, New Nurse Tips, Nurse Relationships, Professionalism, Professionalism Sabotage, Sabotage, Success
You may be in a job you love. You may be in a job you hate. No matter where you're currently at, you have the potential to make the job worse. Here are a few ways to do it:
1) Always be the needy one. If you're always the one needing help with getting everything done and never offer to help someone else, the other nurses [...]
Seasoned with Sage
Building rapport with co-workers is challenging at any age and any stage of your career. For new nurse grads it can be overwhelming. The first day is always the hardest. Your own anticipatory anxiety can make things worse than they are in reality.
One of the most important things to remember is that there will be at least one person who you will annoy no matter [...]
Seasoned with Sage
Kim Rapper, RN, BSN—RealityRN Senior Advisor, 6/23/08
I have first-hand experience with “sticking it out” in a bad job situation. However, there are also benefits to seeking out change. If you can no longer thrive in the environment you are in, move on. But how do you know when to stick it out or start looking for a new job?
1. Gauge your feelings over a long period of time (six months or [...]
Precepting
Keeping your experience positive by what you say.
By Kim Rapper, RN
Related: Attitude, Gossip, Mindset, Motivation, New Grad, New Nurse, New Nurse Tips, Nurse Relationships, Orientee, Preceptor, Professionalism, Respect
Contrary to nursing legend, preceptors aren’t villains. They want you to succeed, and, if given the chance, could be your best advocate. After all, most of them have volunteered for the job or have been identified by their manager as the type of person who would be able to help you best. When preceptor-new nurse relationships get to the point of intervention, it’s not always [...]
Seasoned with Sage
Rose Hollister, RealityRN Advisor 3/18/08
Schools are teaching it across the country: Character Counts. And traits like trustworthiness, caring, responsibility, and respect continue to count—and have far-reaching implications—when you become a professional.
Yet, we hear repeatedly from nurses on this site that nurses are bereft of respect.
Guess what? You need to stop pointing fingers. Creating a respectful working environment starts with you.
If I don’t act respectful towards other people, or if [...]
Reality Unscripted
Jana RN, 3/13/08
I grew up in this town. I go to church here. I work here. My kids go to school here. My extended family lives here. I am well connected. These facts are all wonderful to me most of the time. It does occasionally cause me some difficulties, though. I work at a doctor's office that lots of [...]
Nurse Relationships
A look at nurse-to-nurse hostility and why it occurs.
A Q&A with Kathleen Bartholomew, RN, MN, author of "Ending Nurse-to-Nurse Hostility: Why Nurses Eat Their Young and Each Other"
Related: Abuse, Authority, Boundaries, Communication, Conflict, Fear, Feelings, Gossip, Hostility, Morale, New Nurse, Non-Verbal Language, Nurse Relationships, Power, Professionalism, Respect, Sabotage, Seasoned Nurses, Support, Teamwork, Violence
A man walked past a few kids with a bucket of sea crabs. One of the crabs was crawling to the top of the bucket, so the man told the boys to get a lid. “Mister, you don’t know anything about crabs,” the boys said. “As soon as that crab gets to the top, the others will pull him right back down. Never fails.”
The expression [...]
Nurse Relationships
How to bring unity back to nursing.
By Kathleen Bartholomew, RN, MN, and author of "Ending Nurse-to-Nurse Hostility: Why Nurses Eat Their Young and Each Other"
Related: Abuse, Assertiveness, Communication, Compliments, Confidence, Conflict, Feelings, Gossip, Handmaidens, Hostility, Morale, New Nurse, Non-Verbal Language, Nurse Relationships, Nursing Shortage, Professionalism, Respect, Sabotage, Truth
What nurse hasn’t heard the phrase “Nurses eat their own.”? You’ve probably witnessed it at some point in your career. Or maybe you’ve personally experienced the burn of cattiness, gossip, condemning verbal attacks, or bullying.
Plain old meanness seems to pervade nursing, and you wonder, Is there anything I can really do about it?
Letting this behavior go on will progressively change nursing for the worse. We’re [...]
Rookie Wit & Wisdom
It’s a wise adage: “If you don’t want something shared, don’t say it.”
As a nurse, I’ve learned that you have to assume that whatever you say is going to be shared. I’m very private regarding what personal matters I share at work. But that didn’t stop another nurse from spreading lies about me.
She was flat out lied about a work-related issue--and it was my word [...]
Rookie Wit & Wisdom
Anonymous, 11/08/07
Nurses need to put a lid on the gossiping: “Did you hear what so-and-so said at happy hour?” “Did you see what she did at that party?” “Did you see those pictures of so-and-so wasted?” “Did you see what happened between that nurse and doctor?” It all might seem like harmless chit-chat, but there’s always a real person at the other end of the [...]
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