Related: Boundaries, Communication, Doctor-Nurse Relationships, Learning, New Nurse, Respect

I was a Family Practice nurse for a doctor just out of residency. She was young and sweet (just like me), still had some learning to do (okay, just like me). We had three exam rooms, and her office was in one of the hallways, and my work area was in another part of the small building.

When the doc would finish with a [...]

Related: Conflict, Drug Addiction, Nurse Relationships

Is it your job to be the moral conscience of your floor/unit/clinic?

A nurse recently wrote, “I caught a co-nurse slipping drugs into pocket for personal use. What should I do?

I prefer the gray answer of “it depends.” If he or she is taking Lipitor, Zyrtec, or a Z pak, I would let it go. If, however, they’re taking narcotics, that’s a different story. [...]

Related: Balance, Energy, Healthy Living, Night Shift

I’m not sure you can make nights fit with the rest of your life.

“I love the idea of working nights—the pace is great,” writes a recent grad. “But it’s wreaking havoc on my personal life. Working three 12-hour nights and then having four days off sounds great. In reality, I’m always exhausted. How do I make nights fit in with the rest of [...]

Related: Expectations, New Nurse, New Nurse Tips, Organizational Skills, Seasoned Nurses, Stress, Time

It takes time to look like you have it all together.

“I’m frustrated as I watch the more seasoned nurses find time to take breaks and read magazines,” writes a new nurse, “while I can’t even find time to take a bathroom break. They appear to have it all together, but I never seem to get all my charts and reports updated before the next [...]

Related: Anxiety, Career, Fear, Mistake, New Nurse, Quitting, Stress

There may be times when we need to take a turn as the patient – and let somebody help us.

A new nurse recently wrote, “I’ve been having anxiety attacks. I’m wondering if I’ll make it another week—let alone another day—in my job. My patient load is overwhelming. I can’t, in good conscience, handle the number of patients I’m charged with. I’m [...]

Related: Complaints, Conflict, Nurse Relationships, Patients, Prioritizing, Teamwork

So much of whether you like your job connects back to your relationships with colleagues at work.

A new nurse recently wrote, "I tend to spend a lot of time addressing patients’ emotional needs prior to their operations (calming them, answering questions, or just being with them during the transition). I find other nurses resent me for not spending more time prepping in the operating [...]

Related: Abuse, Anger, Authority, Conflict, Doctor-Nurse Relationships, Doctors, Violence

Just the other day, a surgical nurse, nine months out of nursing school, wrote me,

"Not long ago, after a difficult surgery in which the patient died, the surgeon started swearing at me, as if it were my fault. I know this sounds crazy, but he kicked me. Yep, with his foot. I hesitate to report him. What should I do?"

Now, in my 24 years of [...]

Related: Authority, Confidence, Doctor-Nurse Relationships, Fear, Mistake, New Nurse

So he went to medical school, and you didn't. Plus, you are fresh out of nursing school. So who are you to question a doc?

Here's a common dilemma that many new nurses face: "I was put in a compromising situation last week. A young doctor gave me an order that I didn’t question—I just ran with it. After thinking more about his order, [...]